If you reserve your electronic bedmate for those nights when your living, breathing, human partner isn’t around, what are you doing? Sex toys are a clutch way to up the ante in the bedroom and heighten intimacy with your S.O. since you’re trying something new and exciting together.
And let’s be real: Fingers, mouths, and genitals can only do so much, while the best sex toys for couples can take care of pretty much everything else.
Of course, bringing a toy into partner play for the first time can be a bit intimidating, especially if you’re not sure how your person might react. Liz Klinger, women’s sexual health expert and founder of Lioness, suggests the obvious: “Gauge their reaction first, talk about it, and then make a decision.” And realize, “there’s a chance that they may not want a sex toy, and that’s fine, too,” she adds. “There are plenty of other ways to explore and be intimate together.”
But if they ARE into it (yay!), go shopping. As much as you may want to surprise your partner with your latest haul, getting their input on what they’d like, too, will help make sure the toy gets proper, uh, usage. Together, decide what kind of penetration you want, how intense you want the vibration (if at all), and whether or not you want to add BDSM to your routine. Once you’ve figured all that out, the hardest part will be deciding how many of these 24 best sex toys for couples you should add to your arsenal. My take? The more, the better…
Partner Multifun 1 Vibrator
A G-spot stimulator, cock ring, and clit vibe all in one cute package? Score! Use this toy with your partner and experiment with all the exciting ways it can spark your sexual curiosity. Satisfyer promises 100 (!) different vibration/setup combos for a climax you won’t forget.
The Ohare Double Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring
Hi, double-duty sex toy! This baby is designed just for couples, as a bullet vibe with both a built-in cock ring and rabbit ears. The ears massage your highly sensitive clitoris while the ring buzzes the base of his penis or shaft, upping the chances of the rare simultaneous orgasm. Enjoy!
Similar to the We-Vibe Match, this Satisfyer vibrator for couples was also designed specifically for couples play. Fitted with two powerful motors, this curved toy is meant to pleasure you and your partner at the same time. The thicker part lies directly on the clit, while the other goes inside the vagina—targeting your G-spot and massaging your penetrating partner at the same time. With just the touch of a button, you can select one of three vibration intensities and seven rhythms to help you both climax. And hello, check out that price tag!
Jive Couples Vibrator
If penetrative sex is your jam, but you want that vibration that neither fingers nor a penis can create, the We-Vibe Jive is for you. This perfectly sized egg-shaped vibrator is controlled remotely by a smartphone app, so you can insert it and use wear it during oral sex or sport it on your next date night to make foreplay an all-night event.
Eva II Vibrator
This adorable toy is another one designed with couples in mind. The tiny, light, and simple-to-use vibe is similar to a cock ring (direct clit pleasure for her), but it’s worn by the woman instead, making it a little less cumbersome. Plus, it’s waterproof, so you can get very creative with your sexual adventures.